All of Grace

When faced with the rawness of the inability of the blatant unbeliever, I am reminded of the complete ability of drive, desire, and devotion of my own life is all of grace.  "ALL of Grace"!!  Why do I become so distraught and confused by the waywardness of unbelievers as though their rejection is toward me?  They are under the curse of sin as we all are from birth and only the quickening power of the blessed Holy Spirit gives us freedom from this curse and allows us to seek Him who took care of it at the cross!